here's the ugly truth of being a pet parent that no one really wants to admit to: every sweet, fuzzy, energetic, baby ball of fluff will eventually get to be an old pet. they will develop problems. they will need extra tender loving care as they age. they may need surgeries and medications. and, they will look at you one day and depend on you to end their life with dignity and compassion.
i've been down the road of aging pets many times. growing up i watched my dogs age and then give us one last tail wag as we put gathered around them while the vet gave them the injection that would end their life. i've had pet cats decline in health and made the decision that it was more humane to let them go even though it caused me heartache to see them leave this plane. my rats lived long, happy, boisterous rattie lives until they went to rat heaven. but, in a way, with my dogs, cats, and rats i was lucky: none of them really had any major health issues. we had a dog that had arthritis and had meds for that. another that we had to put on a diet, but nothing really extreme.
once again, i am a ferret person. i discovered that on july 2, 2008 when i brought sunny d-d and cassie into my home. with being a ferret mom comes certain things that don't necessarily come with being a cat mom or dog mom. unless your ferret dies due to an accident, runs away, or you give them away they will end up as a special needs ferret in one way or another. diseases are common in ferrets, but with the right treatment and care they do not have to be a death sentence.
so, back up a step. let's start with what they may come with as kits. two of the common "disabilities" are ones that i have had experience with in two of my ferrets. the first one is deafness. my ferret doodle is deaf. he was born that way. i think he knows that he is missing a sense which makes him all the more tough. but being deaf doesn't stop him. then, my little albino hospice ferret, daredevil, was blind. now, you'd think it would be better for a ferret to be deaf than blind, which, it's actually the opposite. ferrets have very poor eye sight to begin with so if they're blind they may run into things, but if they can hear and smell they'll be just fine. besides, my ferrets that can see and hear often run into things or fall off of furniture just because they're so ADHD and don't pay much attention.
it does seem that vision problems are more prevalent in albino ferrets than in the others. doodle is a dark eyed white (DEW), and deafness does seem to be higher in white ferrets or DEWs than in the other colors. i have heard that deafness is common in animals that are all white, or mostly white. i really don't know the reasoning behind that. but, it's interesting.
i did not have daredevil long enough to become an expert at having a blind ferret. the biggest thing i discovered was just to make sure to bring him to the litter boxes and then not move the boxes from that spot. he became very adept at navigating the house and figuring out where everything was. also, i tended to not put him on the couch since he couldn't see where the edge was.
the health concerns that come as ferrets age are fairly standard. every ferret that lives to a "ripe old age" will most likely end up with adrenal disease and or insulinoma. both of these can be quite serious, but, they also can be quite manageable too with proper vet care and an observant ferrent.
i meditated on it and asked my angels for guidance. the answer came to me that if i opted for surgery she wouldn't come home from it. i treated her with prednisone and pain meds. i gave her all the TLC i could and did everything to let her know she was loved. in the end she passed away in her favorite bed, at home, while fry & i were at his folks' house on memorial day. after she passed away i consented for my vet to do a post mortem on her to figure out what was wrong. during the exams she'd kept feeling something in podo's belly, but it wasn't anything she'd ever felt before. just like the x-rays didn't give a clear image. so she wanted to figure out what was wrong. and it was lymphoma. even if i had done surgery when i first brought podo in it wouldn't've saved her and she would have died at the vet's office instead of at home. i'm grateful she was at home.
tumors, cysts, and all kinds of other things can also effect ferrets. i bring this up because nyddah has an unknown cyst on her lower abdomen. she's had it since i got her 3 1/2 years ago. we drain it every so often. we've done half a dozen tests on the cells from the draining and no conclusion on what it is. yes, the cyst makes her waddle a bit. but surgery is not an option because there is a good chance that removing the cyst would leave her incontinent since it's right near her urethra. that's not a change i want to take, so we just manage.
finally: dementia. i can hear the crazy says what?! all the way over here. ferrets as they age, like any other animal, can develop cognitive issues. and one of them is dementia. until rather recently, like within the past five months, i didn't know about this. until i started to notice that nyddah was acting just, well, odd. she wakes up and runs to the poop pad, then does like five laps before relieving herself, which she never did before. she walks up to fry and i, will look up at us with those big fuzzy eyes, we'll pick her up and then she doesn't want to be held. she doesn't want food. she doesn't want wysong (the insanely expensive cold pressed food we buy just for her). no to duck soup. no to water. no to ferretone. she's just, in general, confused.
i finally asked my vet about it, who has personally has ferrets for like nearly 20 years and has a business of her own (business as in group of ferrets). and she and her husband confirmed that over their years of ferrenthood they've had a few ferrets that suffered from dementia. on the upside, their ferrets with dementia became nippy and ill tempered. nyddah is still just as sweet as ever, just confused. kind of like maw-maw on raising hope. it does break my heart a little when she looks up at me and i can see in her eyes she still knows who i am, and she's wanting something from me but i just have no clue.
summary: there's a lot that you may have to encounter as a ferrent. medications, implants, surgery, and who knows what else. but really, it's the same thing as living a day to day life. each day is a surprise, a gift, a blessing. it's really what you do with that blessing that defines the impact on your life. i choose to take all of it and cherish it. it all makes me who i am.
time to go. doodle knows i'm blogging about him. he's attention seeking. it's amazing, the ferret can't hear but always knows when i'm talking about him.
new teminology used in this post:
DEW ~ acronym for dark eyed white. DEW ferrets are typically characterized by being either all white with dark eyes, or mostly white (meaning all but slight coloring such as a dark tail) with dark eyes. dark eyes are those that are black or burgundy in color, but not red.
ferretsat / ferretsitting ~ like baby sitting except with ferrets. there is also typically a lot more poop and biting inolved.
ferretone ~ a liquid supplement for ferrets sometimes called "the ferret crack" or "ferret moonshine." give a little to a ferret and they will be ecstatic.
kit ~ noun. name for a baby ferret.
wysong ~ a wonderful all natural whole food for ferrets that is extremely expensive, like $40-something per lb. my ferrets eat better than i do.
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